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Feb, 11, 2013

Because diaper changing isn’t under NDA

I first started blogging way way back in 2003, when I was pregnant and finishing my graduate degree, when I was a new mom and completely postpartum, when people used to say, “How on earth do you do it all AND keep up a blog?” People don’t say that to me anymore. It’s become obvious: I don’t.

I’ve been staring at my blog lately wondering if it’s going to speak to me. I sort of kick it around, poke at it, see if it’s still breathing. I’m a curious bystander in my own life these days. It’s not that I don’t write anymore, because I do. A lot. I have pages and pages of blog posts and love notes and ideas written in my notebook on my laptop.

These ideas are now mostly shared with a very tiny select group of people: Namely those who live in my head. Every so often I venture to hand one or two to a loved one but most often the half written prose sit idly waiting for me to return from That Thing I Do Eight To Nine Hours A Day In The Office.

I think it’s called work.

The ironic thing? I like that Work. I could write pages and articles about that thing that I do. I could delve in to discussions about app development, front end standards, managing motherhood and sanity and travel and mid-life crises and bosses. But I can’t. Those parts of my day that I’m legally able to share get pulled in the rip-tide of life and those accomplishments and stories that I crave to write are sealed under “NON DISCLOSURE AGREEMENTS” and privacy laws and google’s ever-watching (and caching) eyes.

In other news: I’ll keep sitting next to this blog in the ICU while it waits in its comma. One day she’ll wake up again. I promise to be here when she does. Will you?

XO,
Mrs. Flinger

Feb, 11, 2013 Filed in: Write •Working Mom • Read the Archives comment

Comments

  • amandamagee
    J02/11/2013

    Of course.

  • nope
    J02/11/2013

    no

  • Leslie Flinger
    J02/12/2013

    I’m ok with some random dick being stupid, but that you came from my actual friend’s blog http://comstockfamily4.blogspo… makes me even less enthusiastic about ever starting to write again. So thanks for showing me who the people I can count on to be supportive. 

  • Kimb
    J02/12/2013

    I will!

  • Kimb
    J02/12/2013

    You’re a fuck tard. Just so you know.

  • Chantal
    J02/12/2013

    mosdef!

  • Liz@thisfullhouse
    J02/12/2013

    *stakes claim in corner, attempts to open lawn chair, nearly decapitating self, throws lawn chair (gently) aside, makes self comfortable on floor, pours glass of wine* Yep!

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