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In an effort to launch something in a very short timeframe, after three months of coding in off hours for stints of a few minutes at a time, I used a framework to get *something* out. This is not code I would use for a client. Ever.
In fact, if you could see my face right now, you'd realize this is a little more than painful.
But, as sometimes has to happen with personal projects, the non-paying personal site takes a backseat to quality and gets dressed in handmedown code. Thanks to VMcore for the free ride here.
So glad you posted this - I’m going to post on this today at The Shredheads.
And glad to know there are others giving this a try.
Hey, I did it for 9 months while pregnant…
I’m giving it up entirely, at least for January. I have more to say, but it’s in a post of my own.
Know that I’m cheering us both on.
Remember that time I quit drinking for a month? I don’t recall that I lost any weight. However, I did do weight watchers once briefly, and you can have alcohol as long as you count it in your points. Either way, a glass of wine is about 100 calories, and any beer worth drinking is probably around 150-200.
As far as battling the bulge…*sigh* I don’t know. I’d loooove to be about ten pounds lighter than I am, and fit and healthy and all that. And even though it’s not necessarily a resolution, I do hope to actually get back to a better way of eating also. Sure I eat mostly organic/natural anyway…but I’m just not a very good eater. I don’t plan ahead and I get stuck in bad food situations at work or when I’m out. For me, it’s definitely all about planning ahead. If I plan my meals, then I will eat better. If I don’t, I’m liable to make extremely poor decisions.
As for those ten pounds I gained though…I will say I gained them after I started drinking significantly more alcohol. Dammit.
You remind me of a quote that I JUST read, “to know and not do is really not to know at all”
deep thoughts. I have no answers. Except I do think many of my choices are ruled by the belief that life is short and must be ENJOYED, and there’s a whole lot more to it than being thin.
love ya! you’re inspiring!
I gave alcohol up for this very reason, but a friend of mine says she runs longer so she can have wine. I run so I can eat.
I need to run way longer though, these days. Perhaps for days. 5 weeks of straight running and I may break even. LOL!
Uh-hu, what you said. To drink or not to drink. THAT really is a good question. And because I am a huge fan of wine, as well as whiskey, I do not plan on giving either of them up in 2010, despite the impending diet of doom that starts on Monday. I am, however, going to be more sensible about my alcoholic intake. That means, instead of drinking a whole bottle of $9.99 wine because it’s cheap and goes down easy, I plan on spending a little (or a lot) more on a good quality wine, only drink a glass (or two) and savor every sip.
I have one of those “weird” medical conditions that is not recognized by most doctors. (Adrenal failure) One of the side effects is getting very, very ill from drinking. My body doesn’t tolerate it. Almost like an allergy. And you wouldn’t believe how long it took me to figure that out. And even still, I would declare it unfair and drink anyway. Then I finally decided that drinking wasn’t worth feeling that way. I drink on occasion now (a glass or two of wine once every few months), but always cautiously because I will feel like crap for four days afterwards.
And for a special bonus, I am on a steroid now that has made me gain eight pounds in a month (OK, OK, the carb/sugar binge around the holidays may have contributed slightly, but I’ve never gained eight pounds in a month before. It’s a little frightening and very uncomfortable.)
So operation “get thy ass off the couch” starts Tuesday when the kids go back to school. And I’m putting better food into me body.
I’ve already thought about what/if I will drink at Blissdom because I want to have fun, but I also want to enjoy the rest of the conference. (That borders on sounding pathetic.)
Sorry for the novella.
I know people who have given up alcohol or sugar and lost a ton of weight. That approach would NEVER work for me. Either would Atkins for that matter, because I can’t give up a whole food group or a whole category of something I enjoy. That’s one of the reasons that I really loved being on Weight Watchers (I’m off it now b/c I’m pregnant, but plan to rejoin after the baby). Using points, you can plan for when you’re going to drink and adjust your other eating and your activity to make it so you can do whatever. I had weeks where I had one night out and had… *ahem* A LOT to drink, and still lost weight because the rest of my week was fine. For me personally, I am trying to make a lifestyle change and not be dieting, so what I need is to learn how to eat more healthy. So part of that is learnign to limit myself etc.
I like food too - I can’t deny myself food. This is why - now that I have kids, and am about to slide over to the wrong side of 40 - I have to exercise so much. Because I want to stay in shape, but I refuse to diet.
You end up happier and healthier by adding more activity in, rather than taking away foods that you enjoy.
It’s also worth noting that in many non tourist places in Italy, places like McDonalds go out of business, because their food quality is so much better than that of take away chains that locals wont eat there! My pregnancy seriously lowered my alcohol tolerance, and I think its made a huge difference to my weight.
Well, I feel like your answer is right in your post. Calories in, calories out. Why do you present regimented calorie counting like an extreme solution? For me, that is the only thing that has worked. And once you get used to it it’s not extreme at all, it’s second nature. I can’t help but keep a running tally in my head of my day’s net calories, whether I’m dieting or not.
Decide how fast you want to lose weight. Figure out your base metabolism. Work in a 500 calorie deficit every day for every pound you want to lose per week. If you go over one day, make up for it the next. Do strength training to increase your base metabolism.
Anyone I’ve known who’s had an all or nothing attitude towards dieting has gained it all back every time.
I gave up alcohol just for a month in 2001. i haven’t had a drink since. But I’m an alcoholic, so not drinking is pretty important!
I’ve actually gotten really fit with and without alcohol.
I think all that’s important is that you keep track. I’m a firm believer in the 80/20 rule. Stick to your diet 80% of the time, give yourself the other twenty to screw around however you like. There are actually some good physiological reasons for building “cheats” into your diet.
What’s super important? Stay focused without beating yourself up!
Mine “issue” isn’t alcohol, it’s just food in general. I get that “it’s not fair” attitude all the time. The times when I’ve succeeded have been the times when I’ve been REALLY motivated for whatever reason. I’m just not there at the moment.
This was great to read. Like you, I know that my issue really isn’t food. It’s lack of exercise and that we do enjoy that evening cocktail. And so that is one of my goals for this month as well. Stay away from the cocktail glass and find some way to exercise intstead.
Do or do not; there is no try.
And, uh, if 9.99 is a cheap bottle of wine? LOL. I just don’t have that much disposable income.
I lost a couple of lbs in the last few days. Partly more fruit, partly hardly-any-alchohol…but maybe mostly, I was bloated. Hard to say. Although I’m sure the “not eating xmas baked goods” helped too. ;p
You can do eet!
I’d like to recommend the GI diet it’s very similar to the French style of eating. It’s working wonders for me. It would do even more for me if I would stop the Boozing but heck one step at a time.
Happy new Year!
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